Friends with benefits are a great thing to have. A lot of people want sex and that is completely fine, but not everyone can commit enough time to a relationship or just do not want one. Thankfully, friends with benefits still exist and you can get some. Here are some tips to help you find and get friends with benefits.
Before you can figure out how to deal with a friend with benefits, you need to find one first. Thankfully, it is a lot easier than you think to find people who are down to sleep around. Here are some places you can check out.
- The Internet Is Your Friend
We live in a generation where hooking up is very normal so naturally online dating sites are popular – and for good reason. A lot of people can find friends with benefits through these sites without even trying! You just have to sign up, make a profile then start looking at the single people who live near you. Once you get a match, you can start getting one!
- Take a Walk
Walking around your neighborhood could do you a lot more good than you think. You can visit the mall, go to some coffee shops, bars, etc. You would be surprised how many people actually live in your neighborhood or city. There are lots of single people who want what you want, so you never know who you could meet while you take a walk in the park!
- Time to Party
Parties are an excellent spot to find single people who want to have sex without strings attached. What is great about parties is the vibe – everyone is drinking, dancing and just want to have a good time. It makes it easy for anyone to start a conversation, whether you initiate it or someone walks over to you. If you get invited to the club with your friends or a house party, accept and attend them!
Drop the Hints
Once you find a potential partner, it is time to start dropping hints. You should not rush into it too quickly, you should slowly drop hints throughout the conversation. Be a bit flirty and show the right body language so they get the hint. You might even want to mention after some time that you live nearby or make a slightly bold pickup line. The worst that they could say is no, but there is a great chance they could say yes too!
Keep it Relaxed
If you got some friends with benefits, remember to keep things low key. Do not tell all your friends about it and do not treat that person like your partner. That can be dangerous and could potentially hurt someone’s feelings. Just keep it calm and call them whenever you want to meet for sex. So no dates, late night phone calls, etc.
Friends with benefits are a fantastic way to get laid without going through all the dates. Get some for yourself by following the tips above.